So, I find it interesting that I am starting the Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses, and this old blog post of mine pops up. I hope you find encouragement in it today.
It’s the last day of February, and I’ve already blown it! My One Word to live by for 2015.
I have vowed this year to do what it takes to be gentle in my words and actions, to respond instead of react. And I blew it.
I noticed a rough patch of partaking in yelling matches with tiny humans (my children). I noticed I wasn’t as kind to my students at school when I became frustrated with their behavior and attitudes. And with adults, well, I wasn’t very nice in my thoughts and attitudes about their irritating behaviors. I may have even stuck my foot in my mouth a couple of times. What else? I probably experienced a little road rage. I never really thought about it until we were in drive thru at McDonald’s and my 4 year old yells, “GO ON PEOPLE!”
Umm yea. He heard that from his mama. Not a proud moment.
So what was it? What caused me to lose my temper, to be harsh, to be someone I wasn’t proud of?
No reason is a good reason. I can blame the fact that I’d just finished my one year Bible and was waiting the arrival of my new chronological Bible. I can blame the fact that I wanted to get caught up on War and Peace and didn’t have time to spend in God’s Word. I can blame blogging, wanting to talk about Jesus instead of spend time with Him. I can pick and choose a bunch of different reasons. Again, none of them are good reasons.
I wasn’t spending time with God like I should have been. Plain and simple.
What I’ve noticed about myself is this…. The less time I spend with Christ, the less I am like Him. The more time I spend away from Him, the more likely I am to ruin my witness. Basically, I mess up. I have behaviors and attitudes I don’t like.
But here’s what true: When I mess up, it’s OK if I realize I’m not right with God and I try to fix it. Now, I’m not saying, “Oh, it’s alright. Go ahead and fail.” Not at all. To God, it’s nothing new that I’m a sinner. He loves me anyway. He asks that I repent of my sins, in this case, my lack of gentleness. He is just and forgives me even though I don’t deserve it. He knows that there will be a day, sooner than I’d like to think, that I’ll fail again. He is, after all, El-roi – God Who Sees Me. He knows my failure is coming. Yet, there He will be, with His outstretched hand, ready to lift me back up.
For that I am thankful. I am thankful that He doesn’t expect me to be perfect, He only expects me to be the best me I can be and reach for Him to make me more like Him. He knows I can’t do it on my own.
But what now? Now that I have seen the patterns of behavior and attitudes that come with spending less time with Christ, what do I do? I have to make Christ a priority….excuse me….the priority. I have to find out what excuses I have for not spending time with Him and rid myself of those excuses. I have to live daily with this in mind: No excuse is acceptable.
This post was originally posted at http://alifeworthlivingforhim.blogspot.com/2015/02/i-blew-it-but-thats-ok.html?spref=fb